The husband on business sends the mother-in-law to monitor my _'s love clinic

The husband on business sends the mother-in-law to monitor my _'s love clinic

Last month, my husband was sent to Shanghai Branch and looked over the operation situation, the time to go was longer, the samples of about 3 months. Have never expected he just walked for less than 4 days the moment, the large running over from the countryside far away of countryside mother-in-law. It was us in the past a thousand urged Wan to press for
Want her to come over to live with us, she is willing to say nothing, now came over suddenly, and and I say that plan to stay. I wonder why mother-in-law attitude change right away quickly very much at that time?
Later, she followed me too when I went shopping, I was afraid she was too tired, it doesn't matter that she said. Five, 60 -year-old persons of her, basically sit seeing the sofa in the store, I buy the clothes for her she dislikes and gets the money down, buy food for her, she says she wants to take nothing. I say what you do so, she is very honest, she says, she comes to accompany me for his son. I really want, smile at that time, whom mother-in-law this make too those one. Later, I had not gone to go shopping either simply, she of the province tossed about, I can't do shopping crazily either.
I phone whether to ask the husband he arranges, the husband says that lets mother-in-laws accompany me or not, I'm afraid I am lonely. I speak her that is called accompanying me, her head is imposed the underground quickly when I watch TV, actually waiting for me to sleep, she sleep; When I surf the Net, she anything understand, want, ask, have old quite a while too; Say a sentence to the neighbour once in a while, she wants to ask about too, especially speak with the man, she is keeping watch on me even more, I say this is monitored clearly. And then gone down like this I will really be crazy, the generation gap is too deep, there is not a common language, so it is stuffy sit,where gone as doing the bad thing.
Reply:
The move, mother-in-law of you, can have 3 kinds of reasons: First, this you husband afraid you to be lonely really perhaps, afraid of old man to be lonely too, so ask your mother-in-law to accompany you. Second, he may be worried about you, calls mother-in-law to look after you. Third, he say on business thing and the intersection of you and mother-in-law you worried mother-in-law have, do it by yourself.
Propose you:
1.No matter for any reason, you should make your husband clear, because understanding at least and trust among couple, if even this foundation does not exist, that marriage is the true grave.
2.Strengthen and the communication of your mother-in-law, not because dislike and avoid the mother-in-law for coming from countryside, educational level low, don't go, communicate or bother, communicate, can choose you something that mother-in-law interested in, exchange. Such as some story as a child, husband of you, believe you whom mother-in-law can feel a great interest in too share whom these happiness remember with you.
3.Give up traditional worry of thought, mother-in-law of you, she might out of maintain marriage and family's safe consideration, son of oneself, and make some unwise acts, perhaps she will say in other words but some things are nervous too. You can share some you and husband happy past event with the intersection of you and mother-in-law at this time, such as the photo, influence materials and so on, these old men like very much too.
4.If you do not have any doubtful place, then take one's own way, let the intersection of you and mother-in-law go, monitor, so instead can let the intersection of you and mother-in-law give up the idea some.
5.Try to be pregnant with crystallization of love as soon as possible. The general old man's thoughts are all so, there are children, the marriages and families are steady, have just rested assured.


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