It can be long-lived that the elderly keep happy

It can be long-lived that the elderly keep happy
Summary: In life, even the intersection of oneself and the intersection of relation and very much intimate people, have enraged you, blame you, you should relax the yardstick blamed too. It is long, " time reveals a person's heart " ,People will get along with you willingly, you are sure to taste the harmonious happiness and pleased that bring of the interpersonal relationships too.
(1) There should be a kind of hobby at least: One has good hobby in life, such as collect stamps, read, row the boat or cultivate flowers etc., will make people feel life will be substantiated, satisfied and happy.
(2) Can try the new things: People's life falls into the dull and oppressive one " The same old stuff " When, will feel unpleasant, if go to participate in a new activity, not merely can expand life field, will also bring new fun for living.
(3) Try to do more work by oneself: In life, if rely on others very much, have too high expectations of the others' one, it is apt to be disappointed. If can establish everything to make, the idea that goes to finish hard by oneself, can avoid a lot of by disappointed worries that bring.
(4) Hand over to several intimate friends: It is physically and mentally healthy for friendship to contribute to, meet with the friend when being idle, rich sky of sea have a chat, not only can increase experience, exchange information state outright one's own angry thing to the friend and inform but also, the friend will remove difficulties and alleviate sufferings for you, therefore can strengthen confidence and courage that oneself gets rid of difficulty and sorrow.
(5) Don't waste time and effort trying to study an insignificant or insoluble problem: Seeing any thing can't be firmlied believe and extremely paid attention to, otherwise easy to waste time and effort trying to study an insignificant or insoluble problem. Want, learn, go, treat thing and analyze the problem, find out different methods to solve problem from different angle, get rid of the rigid gloom bringing from looking at problem.
(6) The society is tolerant and magnanimous: In life, even the intersection of oneself and the intersection of relation and very much intimate people, have enraged you, blame you, you should relax the yardstick blamed too. It is long, " time reveals a person's heart " ,People will get along with you willingly, you are sure to taste the harmonious happiness and pleased that bring of the interpersonal relationships too.
(7) Glad to admit failing with the defect: One unavoidably meets failing, frustrated thing, or a certain defect exists oneself. As to this, should remember a word that the philosopher William and James says: "Glad to admit fact that become already as you, but also glad to accept thing that take place already, you overcome the first step in any following misfortune. "
(8) Set up appropriate expected value: What is the appropriate expected value? As to this, should remember such a word. " there is not the happy way, it, it is a thing inferior toed toward our strength, it is worried not to need " . Otherwise, worrying oneself needlessly.
(9) Stand fast at faith: Firm faith is to overcome setback and failed good recipe, can make people free from pain out, a great man knows when to yield and when not, no matter in the favourable circumstance or adverse circumstance, remain calm.
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