The husband overstepped the limit in 28 I found _'s love clinic
52 -year-old Ms. Du found suddenly, the husband had a 15 -year-old illegitimate child. The husband claims not to associate with lover, look after the illegitimate child now and just do duty, but Ms. Du is unable to believe him. With her present age, do not want to divorce. She does not know
Avenue it's time for what to do. A few days ago, she made telephone consultation for Shu Xin's hot line of this newspaper, this newspaper specially invited experts to answer.
I am 52 years old this year, it has already been 28 years to get married with husband's peak dawn. The peak is honest and straightforward and good-natured, one year older than I dawn.
After marriage, the peak is good to me dawn. He will vie for doing with me the supper. It tow, wash bowls, wash by clothes, complain too never he. Relatives and friends all say I have looked for a good husband.
After daughter and son were born in in succession, our family is full of more happiness. He loves the children dearly very much, will all hold them to turn around indoor when going home each time. Whenever he is on business to go home, will take back a pile of presents.
1690, the peak promotion of dawn. We are bringing up husband's father and mother's whole family to come to Jinan from the sunshine. From then on, I did not look for a job again, but looked around between husband and children all day, have acted as full-time madam.
Once in a while, peak too can lead me go out, know friend of him dawn. He has a fellow-villager who is called Wen Yan. One day, I participated in their fellow-villager and had a get-together with the dawn peak. " the star wishes " that gentle and gaudy to sing one. Everybody speaks highly of her song. My impression to her is very deep.
Later, peak there are working exchanges with dawn. She often looks for the peak dawn, I and so gentle and gaudy as to just hold skillfully in place with a net gradually. Originally, the gentle and gaudy life was very bitter. Her husband was ill in early years to leave this world, lived with child alone, parents are really difficult to live around. I sympathize with her very much.
Not only people grow beautiful, do things in good taste and proper, to people being but also hospitable. Before remembering 78 years, went to the other places to study for half a year in peak dawn, just the mother-in-law is in hospital again. I look after the small one and serve the old one again alone. Sometimes, there are many things of the hospital, so busy that we are unable to cook for the children, you will help me to look after them if you are gentle and gaudy. Even daughter tells me continuously, the gentle gaudy auntie is a good person.
But I wonder why let pieces of household marry no longer such a good woman very much, why take children arduously alone. But because she is the husband's fellow-villager, I am too shy to go to ask her.
Several years ago, heard gently gaudily that opened a company, did the new business by oneself. In my impression, she has not almost looked for my husband. I and gentle and gaudy dealings stand up few, there is no good-bye in several years, she.
Day passes by day by day, children have already found one's own work. I think lifetime this will so calm happiness spend. But I think absolutely, husband have, rape and seduce feeling while being gaudy unexpectedly and gently, and there is a 15 -year-old child.
That was one month ago, son's unit sent a shopping ticket at 600 yuan. The store locating because of the shopping ticket is farther from our home, I meant to give it to the friend, it has been of no use all the time. A few days ago, I was really boringly unoccupied at home, took the bus for more than 1 hour to go to that store.
I go to that store for the first time, have never expected that saw the peak and gentle and gaudy dawn in the store, still taking a boy. They are buying the clothes for that boy. Two people look that share a close relationship.
I do not think more either, go forward and know the peak and greet and and praise the gentle and gaudy son for not good at a handsome young man for a few yearsing. But I find the husband not only the face becomes very ugly, but also the words glimmer, let gentle and gaudy and son go home first, then draw I go home right away. The intuition tells me that he must have a thing to hide from me.
Coming back home in the evening, I asked why the peak bought the clothes for the gentle and gaudy child dawn. I originally thought he can say that just helped gently and gaudily to bring up children, but did not expect whether he speaks or prevaricates, then it is brow that lock closely, first next one smoke. Marrying him for so much years, I understood this kind of expression of his indicates the thing is not imagined simple as I. I have felt the severity of the thing.
He tells the truth under the circumstances that I press for an answer constantly. Originally, he and gentle to pass together once while being gaudy, and gentle to it gives birth to shes to be little and triumphant in child in a only one while being gaudy, that child whom I saw in the store.
My head at that time is muddled. But dawn the peak tells me, he and gentle and gaudy was no longer lover's relation 3 years ago, it is only a normal friend now. However, it is his own child after all to be small and triumphant. He has responsibility to look after smallly and triumphantly.
Peak say he cherish the emotion between us very much dawn. Peak let me believe he dawn, he will come and go while being gaudy again and gently, and hope I can forgive his past.
My explanation to him half believes, half doubts. Unexpectedly he has cheated me for 28 years. Who can guarantee it is the truth that he tell me now? Can I still believe him? Do I want to accept smallly and triumphantly too to choose to forgive him? I do not know the answer. Husband's father and mother's age has grown up, I do not want to let them worry about us, do not want to let children influence the work for involving energy in this either. I have even thought of divorcing him for a time. But face the current situation, I do not know what course should follow and deserve.
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