Husband do not disguise oneself again OK?

Husband, do not disguise oneself again, OK?
The man grows up in the course, has been trained into and has hidden the emotion, don't expose the weakness still more all the time. But if we want to strengthen oneself, must know where one's own weakness is, this is that though unpleasant to one's ears, sincere advice or sharp criticism will be salutary for a lot of men. It's a pity, because has never faced one's own weakness, a lot of men never understand oneself thoroughly, then they always live when come to the surface in the world in one that deny truth of the matter. Through denying others' agony and injury, the man denied agony and injury that oneself receives at the same time, hope not to seem too fragile. When madam makes mood to require him, he may think more or less that is betrayed. The man usually thought: He works for madam and family, so he must get complete support, but not is perplexed the challenge in the intimate relation. A lot of men say, in an abominable environment, if their woman can offer to them loyal, but not criticized, they can defeat other men. Madam who provokes the mood topic is often considered as the disagreeable person in couple's discussion, a lot of husbands believe so long as they can escape and are open for some time, the question will disappear, even hope to never face this kind of difficult problem. This can woman vented on to it takes to go frantic, want bring the great setback sense quickly already for those certainly. Very on intimate terms with someone, mean being very easy to be injured, but as to letting others not set up defences too, can treat each other sincerely. This kind it chooses to be very difficult all for anyone, man, particularly very, in love and relation of care that him believe in. It was the marriage that this had the most general relation, it is for most men why this is too, his companion is so important: It is in this relation, the man does not think it relatively so easy to be injured. Unfortunately, even a beautiful marriage, some men still think his companion may utilize him to unload the mask and attack him later. In fact, some women really do so, take advantage of this to attack the man's confidence and relation having no reserve at all. Ideal marriage relation, couple should be able to totally share the mutual emotion freely, needn't it fears to be can be disgraced, or will mutually take off the scar afterwards. A lot of men only unload the mask and become himself when engaged in the sexual behavior --These why sex become a lot of centre of man, why is this too when going wrong in sex, the man's response will be so fierce. A reason why the man likes reading the pornographic book and periodical is, this kind of stimulus does not need to bear any responsibility, they will not be injured because of this either --And this a so long as sex need on intimate terms vent on the way, women can share happiness or share sorrow with her friend. If require men to totally show oneself in the marriage sedulously, then gentlemen may bear the suitable pressure. Nietzsche says: ' in the marriage, the woman pays oneself, but the man arms oneself even more from woman. ' for a lot of marriages, this sentence is full and true. Since so many marriages are set up on the such basis, no wonder the divorce rate will be so high. A successful marriage shouldn't hide the main servant's relation, couple must believe equal to each otherly, also like to help each other the other side expresses deepest personal secrets and care, and firmly believe the love can overcome all difficulties. Transfer it to from the three nine-day periods after the winter solstice health network

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