The old lady sues children for going home a spirit supports the lesson

The old lady sues children for going home a spirit supports the lesson
71 -year-old the intersection of Chongqing and old woman Liu have three children, eldest daughter, second son and one daughter. In the local human eye, three children are all very filial, not merely will send the living cost to the old man, moreover, even grandchild's granddaughter will often send the money to the old man. But old woman Liu lodge a complaint together three children, she require court judgement childrens pay for the life of 100 yuan of her per month. While opening a court session, the old man says: " I do not need the money, so long as they come back home to have a meal each month. " (February 25>)
Children, give old man send living cost here by the intersection of grandchild and granddaughter, old man lodge a complaint children still, do not make trouble wilfully in this? But finish listening to the demand that the old woman required children to come back home to have a meal, in my heart is other some flavour. Old woman Liu lack money, spend, basic necessities of life can not represent her to be happy and happy while being carefree. The spouse passed away, children do not often go home, proved the old man needed children's spirit supporting, kindred to show loving care for.
Children often come back home to visit parents, try one's own duty of maintenance, this is a human nature. Though the material has already to support had lawed that has stipulated, in actual life, the old man wishing eagerly. According to media's report, some parents do not go home for a long time because of children, the award, award of having a meal that set up visiting voluntarily. Flower of an old man in Chengdu 10 ten thousand yuan holds the funeral for puppy which accompanies him . An old man in Beijing should come back home to celebrate the New Year because of the nurse, jumps out of the building and commits suicide. The intersection of Zhengzhou and for ask, come back home 4 son that come back home seldom one old married couple, performed one that quarrelled and threw the things and struggled for a divorce unexpectedly " L The ruse of self-injury " R Old woman inform, go court children, hope children come back home, take meal, visit award, have a meal award to be very similar!
In fact, children try the filial piety best to parents, not merely reflect in material; Look after good the intersection of diet and daily life of old man, care old man to be healthy psychology happy, respect the old man's right, the important content also filial towards parents. Except old man needs the supporting of the material, crave for spirit to support even more. However, a lot of young people often understand supporting the old man the material to supply with, and the one that has ignored to the old man " L Spirit is supported " .
One, from coming into the world with a cry to grow to manhood, marry and settle down, parents need what energies and sweat does it cost, can not weigh with material, parents' love and care is worth children's repaying through the way that wholehearted. One " L Often come back home to see " L How much for it visibly moved people does it let, can we think of the intersection of oneself and feeling of regret in parents? Will expect when oneself approaching old age, who comes to care about us?
Undeniable, the modern's rhythm of life is faster and faster, working pressure is greater and greater. Children care the old man seems unable to do what one wishes sometimes, this kind of situation is stressed in only-child's family. Undeniable, support the fee for the old man, it is a kind of filial piety heart to engage the nurse to look after the old man too, but money and nurse can not replace the kindred after all . We can't forget kindred and filial piety one, have no reason not to communicate, exchange with parents. Say, if work objectively outside, can't often come back home to have a look, should often witer letters from afar at least, the telephone inquires after one's well-being, find time to come back home to have a look on festivals or holidays, or put parents through to and care for at one's side. If live with parents in the same city or not far apart, should often come back home to accompany parents, the work of talking to parents, talk about life, bear some house work. Meet the old man's spiritual demand in time . Can't let the old man stand the pain of the empty nest for a long time .
With " L The empty nest old man " R Increase,how it support old man, can't become by difficult problems social already. >The white paper said, after entering the 21st century, the speed of China's aging population was accelerated. Until hold while being recent run the council of chairmen, reveal, the speed of aging population of our country is further accelerated while being aged while being national. In 2009, 60 years old and the above old population in the whole country are up to 1.6714 hundred million, will account for 12.5% of total population. Compared with prior year, old population increases Wan by 725, old people's proportion increases by 0.5 percentage points.
Under background of aging population, how let the elderly " Look after elderly properly, provide elderly with proper medical treatment, do something in the old age, provide the elderly with opportunities to enjoy themselves " It is the development goal of China's aged undertaking. Certainly, the government has responsibility that improves the policy of supporting parents, offer service of socializing and supporting parents from the aspect of material for the old man. But a huge one support parents responsibility can't expect government come on, bear, say in terms of kindred all, the care of the government can't replace filial piety of the younger generation. So, it is very essential for the spirit of waking younger generation up to support consciousness. We should guarantee the carefree old man's basic necessities of life on one hand, on the other hand should do the spiritual duty of maintenance to the old man, let" L Often come back home to see " R Become social common understanding, let the intersection of old man and good health and a long life and substantiate Ann enjoy old age happily, it is undoubtedly a ethics subject of making people thinking.
" Come back home, have a look often, look for some free time, look for some time, lead children, come back home, see often, take the smile, take wishing even if helps mother to brush the chopsticks and wash the bowl Even if beat the back to rub the shoulder for father We the childrens can't let old man down . (Hu Yi )
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