Wednesday, July 11, 2012

It is easy psychologically and illly for the teacher children

It is easy psychologically and illly for the teacher children
" engaged in professional parents such as the teacher, accountant,etc., the children educated out are apt to suffer from the psychological obstacle " . The brain straight You of medical chief physician of psychology dept. of department's hospital of Nanjing electrifies the listeners with what said. Straight doctor You told reporters yesterday, he found in the work for many years, in the psychological obstacle patient that go to the elsewhere to treat, parents' job is ranking first of teachers, exceeds half, it is that the parents are engaged in accounting profession immediately after it. According to the introduction of straight You, not long ago, a tall and big high school student was under parents' company, go to the elsewhere to make a diagnosis and give treatment. According to the introduction of this boy, there is once, their class has an examination, he gets the first place, can make such a achievements, he is very glad, but who knows the form master tells him, it is by sheer good luck that he can win completely, the rearward face second, capability of the third place are better than him much. Having listened to class' what director said, the boy is frightened and not dare to go to school, the nationwide examination for graduation qualification of examination after he is afraid is very bad, staying at home and playing games everyday, his parents, as a teacher, see the son is unwilling to go to school, extremely annoying, is forcing him to go to school, as soon as the boy is forced urgently, the boy has a row big with parents, and broken the color TV which the family bought newly, and declare, should force him to go to school, he goes out to break the others' car. And then the doctor diagnoses, find the boy suffers from neurosis. There are an accountant's children besides, he is the shark of one key middle school in Nanjing. But it is deaf to have the nerve one day suddenly. The boy thinks that has already become the disabled person oneself, unwilling to go to the school. It was not his condition that he cared about the accountant's mother, but is his study, force him to go to the school simply. This boy has not escaped the destiny of the psychological obstacle either finally. Then, why are teacher, accountant apt to educate the child with the psychological obstacle out? Straight You explains to, because of the person engaged in teacher, accounting profession, are used to the strict requirement at work, after coming back home, will demand to be very strict to children too habitually, life, studying the different fields and will will be managed very tightly and requiring a lot, and once the child presents a bit little trouble, will add and criticize severely, criticize endlessly, the child will form and require the too high habit to oneself, if the child grow in such an environment for a long time, meeting some normal setbacks will make a fuss too, so, the person who reminds jobs such as the teacher, accountant,etc. of straight doctor You, don't move the job habit home.

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