Wife and lover and concurrently having

Wife and lover and concurrently having
People like saying: " deteriorates as soon as the man is rich " ,In fact this view is superficial. Successful, the man loyal to the emotion again is not rare. And the man with the extramarital relation because not only " rich " So simple, this kind of social phenomenon has complicated psychological foundation. In the man with extramarital relation, start from the lacking and helpless of the emotion partly. After the women have understood the cause among them, so long as make great efforts to adjust oneself a little, " keep the lover's heart here forever " It would not be remote to leave you. The extramarital relation phenomenon of the middle aged man, have the tendency to rise in recent years, this is closely related to psychological characteristic of the middle aged man. 40 years old, the ancient explains it for " the age of 40 " ,But poet liken it to people grow one in the the rivers " Pleasant time " . I thought, these two conclusions had just summarized the main characteristic of a ripe middle aged man: They have already basically overcome juvenile people's naivety and the young people's fanaticism, they have ability and knowledge, can also size up the situation calmly reasonably. Such psychological maturity, impel some people among them to show up prominently in career, an scene curtain excellent drama that happens frequently happens to the director on the stage in life. Then, if conjugal relation is not upgraded, the middle aged man will fall into the mire with puzzled emotion. The extramarital relation, this kind of emotion of coming from the imbalance with external inside, has already puzzledly come from the outside, also the inner world from man. As regards outside, their undertaking and social status, will cause the woman's envy; Their ripe social ability and graceful poise, are fixed one's eyes on by woman. They will not be as too excited and going to extremes as young man. The bumpy experience makes them conduct oneself in society seasonedly, understand women's psychological characteristic, no matter can all demonstrate the elegance of a real man in working and living. A man getting married too early, often the judgement to the love is blind, as he wakes up from dreamlike first love, spends one section honeymoon after life, they have really known women. A man chooses the wife's only condition to be slim, pale, beautiful. After a lot of bother, he found the ideal wife successfully at last. But a few years later, he comes to let me pour out the difficulties. "She is only a beautiful lover, instead of a lovely wife. " The dreamlike love is after the substitution the realistic marriage, a great deal of trouble will all show in life. Some women are fragile innately, acts like a child, but will not keep house, does not know how to show consideration for the husband in love. A good wife should be a good assistant on husband's undertaking, but a lot of beautiful young married women are not not merely good assistant, still causing a lot of trouble out for the husband constantly. Man when being puzzled, will turn attention to external world. At this moment, once meet one and understand one's own woman, he and she may produce the new emotional entanglement. Authoritative extramarital relation, economic extramarital relation, emotion extramarital relation The man's extramarital relation, mostly relate to economic strength change with his social status. Because some men rapidly go up in the world in career, some people in them will shift on the emotion, the dubious relationship happen to personnel to handle affairs with their subordinate, woman secretary, daughter. Such authoritative extramarital relation, will often cause the evil consequence. Other man engage in trade, get rich, rich and powerful to think excessive to want. Many very rich self-employed workers, destroy the family oneself for a mistress, step into the abyss, these can probably be called the economic extramarital relation. These two kinds of extramarital relations, are not based on emotion - -The woman betrays one's own human body for hating to leave status, power and money. This kind of phenomenon has caused the evil consequence to society and family. It is the extramarital relation on an emotion than a complicated one of these two kinds of extramarital relation phenomena. Because a married man has puzzled the existing family life, as he suddenly ran into the sight that another woman favoured, his emotion will be shifted. The human body relation has not happened to perhaps he and her, but attract each other on the emotion. Because each there are one's own family and children, he (she) Can't get rid of the constraint of the original family, can not unload the new sustenance on the emotion again for the moment. This kind of extramarital relation, it is more complicated to solve. The wife should make effective efforts and advise the married young married woman from this, you want to keep the integrality of the family, take, adjust one's own mental structure in the first ten years after marriage. After a young girl becomes the wife, roughly need making efforts in three respects - -First, you are the women in new era, not the man's accessory, you should meet the arrival of second adolescence, keep neat appearance, keep the individual character that is created. The middle aged man needs a beautiful housewife, need a woman all the time attractive to him even more. It reflects that self-destruction is youthful not to decorate, there is no distinction that is to lose the important factor of husband's favor finally. Second, you should change the wilfulness of the young girl, become a housewife who can keep house. The middle aged man values a woman, it is not merely appearance. Man selecting to the wife, often value the woman's ability of keeping house. You should fill this lesson from the moment that after marriage on the first day without learning at young girl age. Third, the gentle woman is a lovely woman. Woman too much to nitpick, not too sensitive too exaggerating too artificial stressing Vanity very much at emotion, all these ones that will cause the man are tired. You should learn to understand the trouble in the man conducts oneself in society, care about and show consideration for more husbands. The intersection of family and art of wife, grasp to intensity that husband control, can lead to the fact family appear centrifugal force while being loose too tight too. Certainly, the extramarital relation phenomenon is that one extremely conceals the complicated problem in man's emotional world, it not only needs the wife's efforts, but also need passing to the mankind's civilization, discussion of morals, emotion and psychological problem to solve this problem, find out the ideal guide method from it, even will restrain through the law sometimes. But a clever woman should regard extant marriage as a new textbook to read after marriage, come, explore, make flower of love turn on with one's own intelligence and love often new often, and bear the rich fruit. Transfer it to from medical network of Asia

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