OK overcome the elderly " Empty nest syndrome "

OK overcome the elderly " Empty nest syndrome "
Psychologist: Spouse and I are retired ex-employees. Last year, our son successively got married with the daughter, the eldest daughter married to another city, young son move bridal chamber that unit divide into to, live in separately get married. Say, finish social work and bring up obligation of children normally, I and spouse should light Ann enjoy old age happily, can since daughter's son leaves home, spouse's bradyphrenia, depressed, close the door all day long and stare flankly, morose, different relatives and friends' exchanges, even I speak to her, she does not speak to me very much either, draw her and go out to participate in the elderly's activity, she does not go either, piece say someone else to be cold to her garrulously since often, favor is indifferent in this world, the orphan is alive having no meaning making actor Ding Di bitter. I am very worried, has my spouse got any disease? Retired ex-employee: Wu DaHua Old Mr. Wu DaHua: What your spouse suffered from is " Empty nest syndrome " ,This has been one kind spoilt and livened up the elderly of the family life do not adapt to children's leaving the family suddenly for the moment, a kind of psychological disease easy to suffer from, occur frequently on old women. The cause can not realize children correctly " From the nest " It is the inexorable trend of family's development, the emotion has gone to extremes, has not thought children around, the beautiful emotion will not just exist, has not found the spouse together from morning to night is the only lifelong companion, therefore fall into loneliness and loneliness and can not extricate oneself, the exclusive, depressed, even pessimistic and desperate bad mood of passivism that suspicion emerges. " empty nest syndrome " Will lead to the fact the endocrine of the elderly is disorderly, the immunological function fails, can not resist the invasion of different diseases, will even initiate senile dementia. To " empty nest syndrome " Patient, essential care and treatment that family should offer. It is the spouse that should care for her as much as possible at first, can do house work with her together, sit with her more, have a chat, stroll around market, park, Wan because she the look depressed and cold to her get angry all day. Second, let children come back home to reunite with old man more, the ones that let home reappear in the past are lively and warm, make the old man get psychological consolation. Third, ask some the elderly who cross happily and substantially to influence her, lead her to participate in some old persons' activity such as morning exercises, dance, play croquet, outing etc., encourage her to enter into the society again, open up one's own life in the space. If necessary, can also let her see a psychologist, let the psychologist try and straighten her out, carry on some psychotherapy to her. There is help of the family, society and psychologist, " empty nest syndromes " It is able to overcome. Psychologist of hot line of navigating of sea of heart: Qiao Yi transfers to from the health 123

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