Guide of urging the wedding _ and blindlying date to the experience that the unmarried clan celebrates the New Year after focusing on 80

Guide of urging the wedding _ and blindlying date to the experience that the unmarried clan celebrates the New Year after focusing on 80

"You pass 25 too, non- small, should get married "The unmarried net friend after 80 " The corydalis is blue " Meant to go home easily easily on the Spring Festival
Clothes pass years, but run into parents, urge wedding, she deliver a model pour out one's woes on the net, the result causes the strong response. Reporter investigation find in the face of urge wedding, " leave man, leave woman " In a dilemma,but parents last intentions of them.
The unmarried clan after 80: Become, leave man, have the woman left?
The intersection of net friend and " corydalis Luo blue " Say, it was 3 years since she graduated, work in the other places, come back home to celebrate the New Year and is pressed for the wedding by parents on the Spring Festival, "call on relatives bunch drop in, which pot, seven the intersection of uncle and 8 aunt every pot turn on, mention too, bomb by turns. It seems that I can not marry, every one worries more than I. The intersection of we and unmarried clan that born will it be the beginning the eighties these, succeed right away really? " Corydalis Luo blue to say the model may be said " a stone evokes thousand layers of waves " ,There are net friends with the card quickly. The unmarried clan admit meeting parents and relatives and friends and pressing for the wedding oneself after many 80. As to this, some net friends say that want to persist, because it is a thing all one's life to get married, must not be careless; Some plan, compromise, ward off the chattering of parents really.
Net friend " snow source - 1981 " Say: "Originally planned to celebrate the New Year at home this time, but went back all people chattered, it seems that it is the same that I have made the huge mistake, several propositions say, when what does it celebrate the New Year most free people, I wholeheartedly irritated finally, do dutiful daughter, annual to cross, come out either, Mummy give angry really, but I did not really like that kind to let persons keep abreast of the feeling of the shelf. Have thing now what does it celebrate a festival, I to will phone, go home, would rather bear bad name of dutiful daughter! "
The reporter investigates: Only 2 escape by luck in 17 people
Why not get married in the unmarried clan after 80? The reporter surveys 17 unmarried young men more than 20 years old, the result reveals, in 17 investigators, only two people say that is not urged by parents to get married. Have formal women in 13 ' Man) In the friend's person investigated, the reason not getting married yet so far has multi-type. Think that 7 persons to there is not economic base; Think 3 persons has no time; Think that has not grown up yet by oneself and is 3 persons; Think of both sides emotion have 3 person uncompletely still, have 4 person say, have other reason cause, get married yet. "Just worked for two years and got married, too fast? There is not one's own even a nest. " The person investigated Mr. Luo says helplessly. "Once the woman gets married, have independent oneself no longer, I want to have an intact oneself, I do not want to choose the marriage, I am a person who believes in celibacy, but I do not repel the love, it is moist that the woman should have love. Can choose to cohabit, shut and gather, divide without shutting, needn't bear too much responsibility each other, appreciate each other it is all right. " Unmarried Miss Sun says when being polled.
Press for the wedding reason: A man should get married on coming of age girl should be married upon reaching womanhood
Reporter's investigation finds, " Upon growing up, every male should take a wife and every female should take a husband " Idea in the minds of parents deep-rooted. "Hold and do the marriage wedding well for children, it is we that work as parents' responsibility. See children coming and going all alone outside, I can not eat meal any more, think that can not sleep fragrantly either, helping to ask about every one and have appropriate target everywhere. " Mr. Tang says, though young people have one's own understanding on emotion and marriage and pursue, but Mr. Tang hopes children can make allowances for a scene of great pain of parents'.
Though era changed, people are not as stubborn and feudal as before to the concept of the marriage, but " Upon growing up, every male should take a wife and every female should take a husband " Idea in the mind of former generation still deep-rooted. But younger generation have one's own persistent pursuit and firm faith on emotion and marriage. Because of the difference of concepts, parents and children have collided on the problem of the marriage, " press for the wedding " Let parents and children all have no way out.


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