Clever wife

Clever wife
Have one composer, appoint with wife, visit friends morning of next day, reach morning, composer want, stay in bed unwilling to get up, no matter how urge him to be unmoved even wife. At this moment,play wife on song where composer create at being at piano not repeating dozens of times not long ago on a few wordses at the beginning. The composer begins to be still disapproving, then it is unable to fall asleep to begin to toss about in bed, the end, can't help getting up and playing and finishing the whole first melody for the wife, the wife has achieved the goal of wanting the husband to get up. It impel here composer get up song of it is be the whole to playing of on psychology, we be for psychologied to be called that. It is the mental disposition that the people try hard to finish a thing to justify the psychology oneself. The positive one justifies the psychology oneself and can impel individuals to produce and finish the strong inner motive force of a certain activity. German psychologist Gornick Cai has done such an experiment: She gives some people 22 kinds of different tasks, half of task wants them to insist on finishing, just over after finishing, another half task is being interrupted midway, does not allow it to finish. Allow to finish and not allow the appearance order of task finishing to arrange at random. What tasks after finishing the experiment, letting them remember immediately was done just now. The task with immature result is remembered 68% on average, the task finished is remembered 43% on average. Better phenomenon than to keep the memory which finishes the task of this kind of memory to immature task is called " Gornick Cai's effect " . The reason why people will have forgotten to already finish the task, because the motive that they wanted to finish to the task has already been satisfied; If the task has not been finished yet, has wanted not to satisfy the motive that it finishes yet, will leave the deep impression on the task. This kind of people's justifies the psychology oneself and is have universality in the really human activity of the card. Negative consequence to justify oneself psychology guest ignore either, it sometimes can set by their against the form, show. It is dilatory to show as, fail to carry through to the end - -When you fear some thing may be finished, in order to escape this kind of one that may bring unpleasantly, will delay deadline, cause the thing to be unable to finish all the time finally. Justify the psychology owned by everyone oneself, should take correct approach to and justify the psychology oneself. Just as a circle is drawn alone, it is no doubt good to draw rounds, it is nothing serious too but draw it round, the heart don't be anxious and fearful and uneasy, because fetter one's own trick at that time, waste much time on the nonsensical thing. Correct psychology should to divide most urgent, times of urgent odd kinds into according to importance their to thing that do. The most urgent thing guarantees to finish, urgent thing once is worked hard to complete, the non- urgent thing may finish finishing, needn't take to can't finish to heart either, not " satisfactory " Can't finish, so will influence the completion of the important thing instead. Select from the health network of three nine-day periods after the winter solstice

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