Carnal desire omnipotent absolutely can't it has carnal desire to be

Carnal desire omnipotent, absolutely can't it has carnal desire to be
A couple had ever successively let me do psychological consultation. What they said is the same thing, but the attitude is completely different. The wife comes to let me pour out one's woes. She says: " I husband that person is piece is cheeky really,with after I am on bad terms because of a difference of opinions,pay no attention to I by he, can close the light in the evening, he wants to do that with me. The air in my stomach has not disappeared yet, really wanted to kick and open him by one try and but see his frivolous appearance, I and some can not bear. Do not really know how he think in the heart? Should I refuse him? " It is shown off to me that the husband looks for me. He says to me: " The woman is most afraid of going to bed. The huge thing happen, even if she hates so that your root of the tooth itches, so long as sleep, the black clouds all over the sky break up. This is my successful experience! But do I also think of knowing, after sleeping, the thing that two people are on bad terms because of a difference of opinions needn't be brought to spend yet up again once? " This kind of situation is not rare. As the saying goes: It rain the sky obscene,young couple needn't worry quarrelling,have a meal by one of bowls and be lasted one of pillows. Seem, it is really the best way to put down couple's disturbance to sleep. In my view, they represent two kinds of most popular sexual love views. A kind of sexual love view is mostly women, their person who says to be the highest doctrine of the emotion. It is at the contacts been excessive for emphasizing in they,it is should first passionate permeated with, then the one that just allowed carnal desire is bold and unrestrained. That is to say, before it is highly harmonious that have not reached in the emotion, they combine the sex to regard as an inconceivable thing, can even be with raping and mentioning in the same breath. Another sexual love view is seen among men more. Their person who says to be omnipotent doctrine of carnal desire. Their excessive strength of believing carnal desire, has regarded sex as one kind to conquer in the heart of hearts. They think, so long as conquer the wife on the human body, then just it is self-evident conquer on soul. As to these two kinds of views, the general sex expert praises and honours the former and belittles the latter's. But in my view, these two kinds of views can't suspect the directive significance of people life. Say the former first, it is the highest doctrine person of an emotion, when two feelings are happy, this kind of understanding will undoubtedly bring rich and colorful spiritual intension to sexual life. And once the crack appears in two people's emotion, even if is because a little small friction does not happen fast slightly, it is the contact of sex that is missed at first. The the intersection of people and large tragic place, lie in them expect own defect no at all what is still. It is very deep that they are contaminated by the traditional idea, regarded as spirit noble, and it is humble to regard carnal desire as. They are unwilling definitely to let and are driven by the carnal desire one's own, think that it is shameful to do it in this way. Even if sometimes one's own sex request is very strong, should suppress it by force. Besides, the latter. Carnal desire is not omnipotent definitely, but can't talk about the carnal desire incapability either conversely. Just now if the people whom elder sister Huang mentioned spread, " The couple needn't worry to fight, a small pillow of evening " Describe between the couple succeeding in coursing of mediation of going on etc. vivid. When spirit communicates to present the obstacle, let carnal desire go ahead. Dilute the unhappiness in the heart through the way that the intimate human body keeps in touch, create harmonious environment and atmosphere, then it is unpleasant to dispel the past one on this basis, will even anything very great of the difficulty get relaxed settlement. The wife should not refuse the husband's sex request, especially two people shouldn't refuse even more after being at odds. Efficacious there can be primary and secondary with the meat, but not the part of one's job is high and low, can exchange and put spirit in the front, also can exchange and put the human body in the front. The wife must not think husband's few speech but the heavy action just think of oneself to give vent to. Know the action is a kind of silent language, the wife should realize husband's good will expressed through making love conscientiously. We tell the husband like this: By making love to seek the relation to improve, it is not a kind of good method, but must not regard it as the omnipotent magic weapon. It can initiate both sides to produce the beautiful emotion that what the contact of sex brings is joyful, but does not mean that originally causes the contradictory reason and does not exist. The husband wants to know, had better strike while the iron is hot and solve this contradiction completely. If mistake in you, must admit you admit a fault at this time, wife sure and very glad to say, forgive as soon as possible. If you regard contact of sex as guaranteed to cure all ills good medicine, play the same old trick constantly, how long does it use, wife will take the intersection of you and ways to do things no longer, produce ill feeling completely you. By the time, some things want to remedy on late.

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