Eliminate singly " The harmful influence "
It is one state to be single, can become inertia while being getting long continuously as one state, difficult to change. When Adam and Eve has not met mutually, they are all single files of walking in the world alone alone person, and once they meet, first ask things of the love right away trickle on them, then they become an inalienable whole. Though the newest scientific discovery indicates, Adam and Eve can not meet each other at all, but we still believe the sacred strength of the love, it can make the person in love cross the very heavy obstacle, enter into happy the Garden of Eden finally. The marriage is a kind of choice, while it is one kind that is given up. Namely give up the inherent, individual character or even free. A lot of people are curious, guess they just make the decision after economic accounts which calculates a marriage. Because economics and society enable all materialization, quantize, some shrewd persons feel that it is not worthwhile to get married, keep single state, like this is qualified to transfer, basically keep " advanced dust " too . However, it is one that more young friends are still single there is no alternative, it is a kind of inferior single state. They are waiting to get an electric shock at any time, wait for the striking of another heart, then merge. Only, wait for long, have higher our requirements for the other side, and form for a long time have life style alone just as cicada callus wrap up in thick, it is very difficult to break through - -Even break through oneself, self-transcending, but " harmful influence " that single life leaves Also will corrode our fresh marriage. If you single to expect bright marriage life even, then please eliminate the single " harmful influence " quickly for a long time ! The love frustration way to pile up active volcano Li Wen of the emotion may well be long-term. Li Wen has claimed to want to get married since childhood oneself, motive and goal that it is initial to be been educated in the university can be in relax later charming prince, a sweet love of campus, then become a able and virtuous housewife. However, " Heaven shoulders me " . In bloom in flower of Li Wen in 4 years of the university countlessly, but none becomes the consequence after all. After the work, Li Wen seeks actively, what the sponsor introduced was met, the place of matchmakers has been too, but either your mercilessness is that I have no intention. In this way, Li Wen's first-class thirty years of age. Sometimes, God seem, joke, you expect anything, it hangs appetite of you. So-called frustrated in love, " store " Proud. Foiling bringing up the success of career of Li Wen's love. Through the efforts for many years, Li Wen grows into a foreign enterprise officer in the capital from a nonlocal graduate. Strange too in fact, when Li Wen has already been used to and accept that kind of nowadays fashionable single noble's life gradually, but love is not invited and come. Got married in 3 months if Li Wen is acquainted with husband. To person in love, perhaps 3 months are long enough. "Single life is a kind of disaster to me. Life when I am real begins since get married. " Li Wen says, it is clear to get married, a woman's happiness can be so simple originally, do not need any decorating and scheming. But after marriage, while Wen Li fill the air, happen one fragrance and happiness on feeling oneself, accompany by one strong hurt and wronged and sense of achievement. "I have waited so long, are the ones that meet these? " Wen Li become fragile after marriage, love cry, some minor matter and will cause torrents of water rushed down the mountain while being hurt and wronged, take the husband's former girl friend to heart especially. Begin husband to be patient to coax her advise she, on gradually a bit impatient later. Originally, the one that can move the man most is the woman's tears, can drive away the man's woman's tears most too. Wen Li find time that husband go home more and more late, say " woman avarice knows no bounds " always Wait a moment. Later, Li Wen had a talk with the husband deeply, said the one's own one was hurt and wronged. The husband has smiled after hearing, he says: You one's own single fault regard as get me at the hair originally. You can't think about it conversely, I am " it is qualified to train " at other woman's place And then just " send " Get to your place, your stand is a big advantages, what return the grievance? What husband said dissolve Li Wen hang-up of heart promptly, banter Li Wen laugh heartily, and not again from now on " It is like the sea deeply that hurt and wronged and deep " . Finally, Li Wen has to admit all these are the after effect that alone. Strong hurt and wronged sense and sense of achievement come from the accumulation waited for and expected for a long time to the love. A method of yours of Li WenJiao: Single to meet and thirst for the love for a long time for a long time and suddenly, people's happiness that indeed make, but make sure to keep in mind after coming to a successful issue at last: (1)Marriage trifling, purpose to up to marriage that we want, the more important thing is how to let it keep fresh and for a long time. (2)The woman should avoid completing already sinking for the happy resentment woman in strength. Like what a man singer sang: I give, you want. What the woman's emotion is piled up and formed is an active volcano, it is the course piled up when being single, once get married, the volcano will probably break out at any time. Wait for a long time, it is too deep to look forward to. Then, please try to do the content with one's lot one of a love! Trussing up life, are you ready? Zhen Ren graduate from university that year with go boyfriend that U.S.A. study wash and wash to get married, it lets to be just 21 year old really that year. The students that Ren Zhen and boyfriend are that the same university is different, the high her first grade of the boyfriend. Zhen Ren settle boyfriend from sophomore period, love deeply, marry 2, how can not Ren Zhen imagine too, that once swore that year " I will kiss your gum on your old tooth " Man meeting fall in love with women other. As find in lover that oneself have daily and nightly in the thoughts like to some extent separately, Zhen Ren collapse completely. Ren Zhen waits for 8 years totally for that love, and would rather say than say it is the love that remember. Ren Zhen is a beautiful reporterette, do not lack the man's pursuit and sympathize with fragrantly and cherish the jade naturally at one's side, but Ren Zhen gets game and life very clear. Over the past 8 years, it is " married " that Ren Zhen has carried Identity live a single life. Zhen Ren sing under the of of tears one " love one person that does not go home " once. After Ren Zhen understands one's own stake of this marriage ends up by failing in the office completely, she begins to understand, what oneself thirsted for most is not to go abroad, not U.S. dollar, but a husband who loves her. The divorce was put forward by husband, Ren Zhen's acquiescence. Think oneself lose very much, let down 8 year golden years just. Ren Zhen who is single says again: "I know what kind of man can only make lover, what kind of man suit make husband. Now, I hope most To be warm in every one family,let have getting stable errant heart I. " In a individual gathering soon, Ren Zhen has realized economics doctors L of Tsing-Hua University. The learned and unreasoning passion of L lets Ren Zhen fold one's hands for capture quickly. Ren Zhen says: "I
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