The examinee does not worry parents take it easy

The examinee does not worry parents take it easy
As to usual being comparatively conscientious child, parents unnecessary in pay close attention to the fact and afraid too them before examination, parents' anxiety that this kind of worry reflects. If this kind of anxiety is passed to the child, can only increase his burden, for encouraging children or urging the child on not to have any result. If your child watch TV before examination, or play and play a moment later, you are totally unnecessary to be overanxious, this can not prove the child is killing time, but prove he needs some to relax. At this moment, parents can do it in this way: 1, Should encourage child go out, take exercises more, can tell child appropriate rest to guarantee, have one good psychology. 2,Parents mustn't seek generally to ask the situation of study, how such as reviewing, how many points anything has been held, can do in the test. What but it takes some help to ask to the child, there is any difficulty, can parents do. 3,As the difficult or pressure in the heart that child and you talk, parents should hear and talk few more. Don't say some major principles that everybody knows. For example child say worry, do in the test bad always, you don't say, afraid, do in the test good mother blame you either, only need do the best. When child and you say the pressure, do not always mean you should solve it at once, but the leading off of a kind of mood, a kind of trust to you. In fact he knows how to solve this kind of pressure. At this moment, he needs you to understand and support even more. As to the child before examination, what you can do is for trusting. Beijing PupilMid Sch Student Psychology Education Consulting Ctr Liu XiangPing

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