Take an exam of one and close on - -Don't forget examinee's psychological health

Take an exam of one and close on - -Don't forget examinee's psychological health
High school entrance examination and college entrance examination once every year are nearer and nearer, all kinds of examinees have already entered the last sprint stage. At this moment, in examinee's eyes is all books, the heart is filled with the examination question; Parents are very more busy, rush about and shuttle between every of shops, pharmacies, buy various tonics improving physically and mentally for the child. And examinee's mood state and psychological pressure at this moment are often ignored by people, these will influence examinee's marks of the examination when the time comes exactly. Close to taking an exam of one, should pay attention to avoiding the following mistaken ideas: " inhibition " In this unusual time, " hoop " on examinee's head It is tighter and tighter the hoop, every day's homework, test question will present the new " face " ,The end-of-term examination three, six, nine, there are the quizs everyday, the examinee's visual field have been piled in examination questions emerging in an endless stream. When the examinees gather together, can't help speaking of the same topic too, taking an examination wholeheartedly has already become all of their life contents. In addition, the supervising of teacher, parents, all these form " inhibition " ,It is unfavorable to students and take an examination with all strength, will become the burden of taking an examination instead. Expected value parents, to children's expectation, the teacher's expectation to student, the examinee's expectation, like " the three big mountains " Press in the examinee's head equally. If does not do well, how to face " Jiangdong elders " ? As a result, choose the light and fight at night, study hard desperately, fail in an examination and swear endlessly. True, expect what efforts does it discuss, discuss what succeed again hard; However, have broken away from the realistic state, broken away from examinee's real standard and too high expected value of the ability, will often cause the result of turning out contrary to one's wishes, running counter to desire. Some parents changeable in mood overly pay attention to the child's roll surface achievement, obtain and is divided into liking, has lesser value as anxiety high by child's test; Feeling happy will award the child greatly, it is angry while punishing and bare-knuckled to grow, such attitude changeable in mood is very disadvantageous to the examinee's psychological stability. Some examinee's own moods will often be producing the fluctuation constantly with the teacher's appraisal, level of the mark, external public opinion too, do not look for the subjective reason when the examination mark is unsatisfactory, and emphasize the objective factor simply, moan and groan, blame Heaven and man, take such mood, how to prepare for college entrance examination wholeheartedly? One-sided to take, too pay attention to and put emphasis on that guarantee the examinee's study time by some parents, and ignored other respects. They are often absorbed in supervising children to delve into books, depriving children's due break. Hardly realize, striking a proper balance between work and rest makes the brain give full play to the function, but will make the brain produce " inhibit to study hard oneself " because of being overtired simply ,It is unfavorable to study correctly instead. Moreover, still study hard and produce little effect desperately when the brain function is at a low ebb, lose more than gain. Some parents are good at inferiority complex " Have a low-key attitude " ,Always complain in front of the stranger one's own child is disappointing. This seems to be " Modest" Attitude and method, regular meeting last child to last sense of defeat - -Have not " sold " yet Already quilt first " Kill " Some ambition and imposing. If once or twice test scores before examination are more unsatisfactory, it is apter to make the examinee fall into " destiny " Mistaken idea,last oneself, No, " order" when let's go to the college ,And lose confidence in succeeding from this. All sorts of above-mentioned mistaken ideas, it is very apt to make examinees can't bear the heavy load of the pressure and cause the psychological unblance, produce, " have an examination anxious disease even. " It contributes to the excited nerve that the slight examination is anxious, can improve the examinee's examination ability; Intermediate examination of the above anxious to can cause stress, the intersection of sleep and lack proper care, slow in reaction, the intersection of memory and obstacle; It will influence and damage the examinee's physical and mental health seriously that the severe examination is anxious. Succeed in, yearn for by everybody, but road succeeded to lead to have ten million, only lean against " single-plank bridge " . Wish parents, teacher including examinee can realize and treat the examination rationally, objectively, correctly, healthily, loosely, in the harmonious atmosphere of taking an examination, study hard, review conscientiously, try to succeed.

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