The staff member suffers from social activity frightened three times and refuses to be promoted

The staff member suffers from social activity frightened three times and refuses to be promoted
" I am unable to adapt to speaking with confidence in the public occasion, quite struggling, I am unable to overcome such shy sense, it has limited my career. " L Already 40 this year Years old Yuan Liang ( Assumed name) ,Because it is frightened to suffer from the social activity, has refused to promote the duty three times for over 10 years.
It is afraid of making a speech to malinger out having a meeting " L Escape " R
After 18 years old special secondary schools graduate, Yuan Liang works. Seem suitable and low-key on this post correlated to personnel, is led to pay attention to too. The leader offers to him many times and is transferred and promoted the chance, but he always refuses. While just working, because it is outstanding to behave, Yuan Liang was drafted the office as the personnel executive, send to some other department and participate in an important meeting once, should transmit at company's conference after coming back. As a result, he sits at the rostrum, has suppressed for a long time and did not say a word flushedly, conference scene getting awkwardly silent after the last 3 minute, Liang Yuan pretend it is difficult for stomachache not to bear awkwardly" L Escape " R Have gone out of the meeting room.
Unless unless hereafter, whose name is getting more unit whenever leader talk to Yuan Liang, it plan at not letting him not promoted,he on the issue that with health, unable not to competent at for losing from pushing away, can't really push away, resign simply. Pushed away in the post which lost a director last year, was such the third time of Yuan Liang.
" Uneasy and liking staying alone, has already let him lose an important position and income of 10 ten thousand yuan of every year at least in the crowd. " A leader of Yuan Liang's has said.
Three refuses to be promoted and lost the post of high salary
Refuse, transferred and promoted, eyes see oneself people in middle age transfer to work to be already difficult already, Yuan Liang has fallen into deep worries too by oneself. " I find, skill and logic think ability has already taken me to
The fairly high position on the job ladder, it is unlikely but if you want to peak, unless I can overcome shy, like hitting and handing in one with people, and I can not do this at all. " Yuan Liang is to institute's Vice President of China's Western medicine, the psychological expert Professor Zhang Wei complains.
He is made weariness can't bear by the social life, fears to keep in touch with people, under the public environment, always adopt and avoid the behavior, unwilling to talk with people. Not only this kind of disease not merely influences his basic social communication function, but also in extreme cases, daily work for example until customer have lunch together and Company have a get-together etc., become a kind of torment to him.
Analyze
The change of patient's brain function district is more sensitive to negative information
Professor Zhang Wei says, it is suffered from that Yuan is bright " L Social neurosis " ,Also a typical social anxious disease. Professor Zhang Wei still shows, the nuclear magnetic resonance technology of use compares the brain image with, found finally, the social neurosis patient controlled the neural cycles of the area of frightened and anxious mood in the brain, have changed. Have abnormal state of some functions of brain district through the anxious obstacle patient of social activity of finding, especially the processing of shouldering, threatening information is different to the ordinary person, that is to say the social neurosis patient is more sensitive to negative information. At present, China Western medicine institute mental hygiene centre, comprehends therapeutic method such as treatment, system desensitization law and group's psychotherapy through cognition, make these persons suffering from social neurosis get rid of the psychology to perplex fundamentally, have reached the sound development of the psychology and completion of personality. (Cheng Yu )
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