The job market is not afraid of getting a scolding and denying

The job market is not afraid of getting a scolding and denying
Brief content: Feeling that a lot of people like the house to take on an entirely new look after cleaning. Likewise, it is very beautiful to finish paying attention to the feeling sent too, because the surplus thing is removed. Our job state is so too, need to drive job market's pressure out regularly.

Children are happy, because he does not have too many worries, there is no unnecessary worry. But adults are different, there are too much overstocked thing and complicatedness imagined out too much and some extended grief in our life.
The people with the computers all know, the collection depot needs the clear and empty frequently one, otherwise will take up too many spaces, influence the operation speed of the computer. People's head is too. You can't throw away everything, you can't keep everything either. The clever person is a person who is good at choosing, and the person choosing in right time. Have too suspicious people of thing walk fast, without worry person lack reason mostly totally.
And the difficulty of the life is lying in this, you should clean and give up some things constantly, because " whether whom life clog thing little, heal, can give play to latent energy right away " . Remember in a play, a person says to the protagonist: "Let's go, don't come back if not doing well later. " He mean let him leave here is to hope, let, tie down he in the past.
It is a kind of struggle and course of struggling to clean soul. One journey that wave constantly in life, teenager want, say good-bye to hometown, sad people want, say good-bye to sad, hawk want, say good-bye to easy, happy to want, say good-bye sad. Without saying good-bye, have not grown up, should be strong, will dare to turn round soon, it is for meeting to part better.It is a kind of tolerance too to give up
One is just like a country, it is too tolerant to grow up not to have. In all successful key elements, it is the primary importance to have in mind, or can say it is the first's tolerantly too.
Sometimes, the words given up attacking, give up angry impulse, the aspiration giving up retaliating against, itself is a kind of tolerance.
The clever person should often give up the explanation too. In a lot of people's view, it is covered up that explain. Li Ao says right: Explain sometimes it is unnecessary - -The enemy does not believe your explanation, the friend needn't have your explanation. A lot of things needn't explain at all, because it did not rain completely sometimes if it is not fine, it would be completely better if left.
The successful person mustn't be afraid of getting a scolding, because so long as you do things, will make mistakes and will touch some people, will make some people discontent. In fact, it is in favor of you being very good that there can be 50% people, seldom there is a a hundred per cent thing in the world, the easier to break the more beautiful thing is. Temper oneself and adopt a correct attitude towards opposing ability, will consult the objection voluntarily bravely. Don't complain about the opposition person, he can well have his views, this is his freedom, have nothing to do with you. Needn't the intersection of fee and strength go, argue with him, hurry on with a journey serious.Time produced beauty
Nearly everybody has one's own sadness ground, so we are not strange, some places which seem very important such as homeland, Alma Mater, unit one formerly belonged to, first love scene, but may not be certain to have a lot of people to go back enthusiastically, that because have too many stories inside, there is too much heaviness in where it is. What the eye doesn't see, the heart doesn't grieve over.
, time diluted all past events, only left bright memory, youthful memory, the memory of growing up, the memory of striving, the magnificent smile that still brushes past and warm candle light that is lonely in night. I have participated in and interviewed the anniversary of the founding of a school of a lot of, the gray hair of the kindliness mirrored my eyes most and tear ripples ripples of reunion after long separation. Time can soften hard soul of iron the most.
The social psychologist tells us, envy and evolve from close industry and area, the conflict often stems from the pestering of the interests. " all living beings expose to violent struggle " ,Because all living beings tend to increase in high speed, under the limited situation of resource, struggle is inevitable to survive. And most violent struggle, almost always happen among allogeneic individual, because they live in the same region, need the same foodstuff, is threatened too. Need relaxation of relation some by time and distance,from far,feel unimportant, also open and easy. It far looks that a lot of things are very beautiful.
So I often warn oneself, needn't be depressed for the problem that can't be solved, the problem that can't be solved again, will disappear in the mighty torrent of time too. Hostility, misunderstand, despise, contradiction, will desalinize, turn on while being light with lapse of time, time can make the blue sea turn into a mulberry field.Aesthetics of retiring from office
I make a lot of special column, but I make more than special column for less than one year seldom, because I think perform and say to any written language, one year is long enough. Better eyes, it will be tired to watch a piece of things attentively long, people's physical power, mood and intelligence cycle determined a person can't keep in the climax forever, within one lifespan, people will move towards low tide inevitably. It is one lifespan in one year.
"Prompt and beautiful withdrawing is as important as beautiful attack. It is long to assist somebody, even lucky goddess will be tired " . An important one is not to win others' cheer while showing up, but it is others' miss to you when leave.
Aesthetics of retiring from office, namely start well and end well. The key to it is " End " Opportunity and way. Leave and withdraw more difficult comparing with the time of entering smoothly smoothly, because the mountaintop is very beautiful, because people are generally tired more out while going down the hill.
" no moss will grow on the stone rolled" ,Play that mountain at these mountain relieve oneself. Can climb countless mountains in people's life, every mountain is such uniqueness, but no mountain is really worth your staying forever.
Influence a factor of retiring from office to hate to leave, another factor is too persistent. As to the interests in life, anyone can't be too persistent. Too what is called persistent, but not bigoted in a certain respect, a certain desire, a certain attempt, a certain purpose, a certain course. May enable people lose the apropos judgement while being bigoted any, thus has missed the beautiful scenery, affect life adversely.Can't lose the mood while losing anything
" you can not lose something because of giving somebody a smile, because it will come back again forever " . How the things go out, how will come back. Nobody does not like smiling.
But the question is not often the things making people smiling around, but the things making you agitated, uneasy can not often get rid of. The person that can't like with oneself is with thing, is a lot of unhappy basic reasons of people, because you do not have a happy source.
Once there was period of time, I was very disconsolate, the girl who I liked did not mind me, the manuscript that I did meticulously was changed to change, health of me go wrong too, cold patronize I frequently, my life in a complete mess. My good friend says to me at this moment: "Can't lose the mood while losing anything, put some things. " I decide to change. I no longer look for that girl, I throw that manuscript to other places immediately, I say good-bye to for a time sluggish and irregular life too, begin to play ball and run every day. As a result, my body makes the callisthenics stand up, that manuscript of mine is issued soon, and can return the award, I no longer " mind " That pieces of girl begin to be lain in by cases of I
I think all the time, what reasons one or thing can make you uncomfortable to have, you may known that some reasons have been wanted for a long time, but you will never know some reasons, but all these are unimportant, the more important thing is it makes you uncomfortable, it influences your mood, influence your judgement, influence your time too.
Give others one the intersection of re-recognization and chance of you, give oneself one the intersection of understanding and broad world chance, it is good.
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