Psychology of job market of _ that the job market will control mood and succeed

Psychology of job market of _ that the job market will control mood and succeed
Revealed by " Chinese IT employee's psychological characteristics research report " which departments such as the research institute of talent assessment of South China Normal University,etc. release together: Staff and achievement with outstanding achievement general staff, in " control ability of mood " The respect has obvious differences, the psychological characteristics even plays a decisive role on could be competent at a certain posting.The past two years, American psychological educational circles are paying relevant " mood management " too Study. Studies have suggested, can control mood one basic demand that great majority work, especially even more like this in management, service industries. Likewise, one stress " the to hand in gentleman " from ancient times such as China Society in,last self-regulation, it is last interpersonal relationships, last one of conditions importants of success."at Huang Ti through "in say by the seven emotions and the six sensory pleasures have people,to like is sad, angry to injure the liver, sad lung, think and injure the spleen, probably injure the kidney. It is obvious emotional responess the intersection of people and normal behavioral side, can injure body while being excessive with feeling. Few people can control mood by birth, but in daily life, people should learn to suit. First of all, while meeting stronger mood to stimulate, should adopt " measures to stave off an attack " ,Force oneself to cool down, analyze the cause and effect of the thing rapidly, take action again, try hard not to let oneself fall into the excited and crude and rash, simple and rash passive state.For example, when satirizing, laughing at by others, if is angry at once, answer back sarcastically, will probably cause both sides to dispute, wounded and kind. Leave weapon on silence in order to show, protest only until front express injury that oneself receive in a nutshell at this moment, the other side will feel awkward instead. Moreover, had better study in more the books of China's traditional culture at ordinary times, there are a lot of guidance human communications and personal training methods inside. Can also carry on some pointed training, train one's own patience, for example practising handwriting, painting,etc..
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