Career women faced the man full of fancies

Career women faced the man full of fancies
Originated from in this issue: Not long ago, one apply for, get some whistling and pattering lady of company phone until " house offer " editorial department seek expedient " just. She says she is that one is born on the beautiful woman, how much people's praise not to know to receive very much while as a child, what does not it is not known how many women to accept admires sight very much. Oneself rate has been proud of later for one's own beauty and a unusual one more than once too. But recent I am more and more one's own and beautiful and worried. For the previous period, she applied for two companies continuously, does not know whether that lets her meet two lustful men luckily, the trouble that her beauty gets into, go to work soon, the superior begins to have not to think to her. She is a married woman, deal with this kind of " color " outside every day The man, has really bored much. She understands too, should avoid to meet this kind of man, however, this post which she likes applying for a job now very much. Can you help her think a good method? Positive method: You are beautiful you are afraid whose woman is beautiful, is really a thing both worried and glad. Beautiful to the woman, it is a weapon sometimes, is basically the place in one's power, sacrifice all in that place. If beautiful to aim at, man block lure and is hit one after another, on the quilt unconsciously " Beautiful " Leading by the nose. It may be that woman's beautiful lethality to the man is too big, so, the woman wants to advance bravely, work hard when being beautiful, this let man glad secretly on the heart. So the man often uses " The sense of loving to make up and wearing beautiful clothes is owned by everyone " Or " love not country but beauty " Come to poison and bewitch and the comfort beautiful woman, let them relax the watchful expression in one's eyes or kindly accept the attention of the man. This is " kindlied accept " With " solicitous " ,Just as China old Taiji is right to hit, the palm is relative, the wrist wrist is accompanied, push away to come, for a moment gentle on the surface you entered me and retreated, I enter you and retreat for a moment, it was very goodlooking on the surface finally, just as perform and come out even, the dark strength that but is making silently. A woman is beautiful, don't mention her superior and colleague, is a person keeping goal, will utilize the intersection of oneself and post, let oneself enjoy some " beautiful " . Realize beautiful value correctly, know how " the beautiful one survives " Rule,can heartily "use " Beautiful. Beautiful not " The capital " ,It is a energy. Beautiful stupid then as capital, it looks on energy as not being beautiful to be intelligence. Someone says, the woman is beautiful, will straighten one's clothes and sit properly, not look sideways, had better also smiled at and did not reveal the tooth soon. Because you are beautiful, the man will ponder how to draw the close quarter with you. Their trap, usually use and " respond to every plea " Make, gentle and hospitable that kind cunning. If not a head armed with intelligence, this kind of trap is in front of you forever, but not following. Woman if because of carelessness, let one's own beauty give, cause man, same sex call you orangutan precise fox have, the opposite sex scolds you without knowing good from bad. The man instead of working hard " Eat grapes and say the grape is sour " ,It would be better to be brave and knowing intelligently to meet the trick. In every case meet the man full of fancies, the thing that a smile can be done well, don't stare; The question that can be dissolved of clinking glasses once, don't leave in a huff; The ones that can be avoided don't cross swords!; The ones that can outflank don't be direct; It don't be sober that should be confused Beautiful career women will often meet a kind of situation: Your boss or colleague, held your hands tightly one day suddenly, and gazed at you with deep feeling Clever woman, will not speak and reveal one's feelings at all at this moment, take one's own hands out taking the expression in all seriousness, then finish talking the thing that should be discussed turn round to leave calmly. Following a a few days, no matter how 's familiarity once it will be you, take, give him one extremely courteous courteous smile, then just as everything has never happened. Such a beautiful woman, no matter shrewd man or confused man, they are all afraid, because can not touch the depth. Dare not desire the man's traditional woman full of fancies. Traditional woman all have a kind of thinking: Look at more man, just as oneself take more losing large, let alone let one irrelevant man laugh one, flatter some, love. If one are modern the beautiful career women regard the situation as very grave or critical to this, then she is treading on thin ice everyday. Because of the modern man, are reflecting " likes to be beautiful " Its heart respect, go even farther than the older generation of they. The beautiful woman, in the face of or malice, full of eyes of pornographic challenges that the man is well-meaning, can warm to hide improper also, unlikely to hold one pair of chests tightly, cover the face and leave. The beautiful woman has a kind of arrogance that is pampered and connived at out, but there is a kind of vigilance reminded out by unoccupied speech too. They are very apt to regard the man doing everything to please to them as " The lecher " One kind. So they are often one's own bit " Kindly accept " The behavior, is come down to " lustful " Surrender,thus it is at heart it is one's own since it condemn harsh words. This gives play to the obstacle of one's own intelligence and wisdom normally as they. Obviously, until this piece hate oneself without, enough for beauty nowadays, dislike oneself to be enough cool only, only afraid one's own modernized society not enough to put on airs, " refuse people except thousand li " It has not already been that beautiful woman has reflected the best life style of self-respect. Instead of dodge, say beautiful to bring trouble to oneself, as admit a beautiful to bring one others enjoy chance while being generous. (document Babb) Guard the method: Refuse most safe the intersection of beautiful woman and trouble more, married beautiful woman trouble more. There is a strange phenomenon: The man plays the game that the emotion overstepped the limit, goals are often all married women. Certainly, it is the better that this woman is the more beautiful. Say a bit more pleasantly, take a fancy to the other side and go through life and repair the flavor of woman that produces; It is unpleasant to say, in fact lack troublesomely. You think, once unmarried women submit to it to a man, want to marry and become its wife mostly. Man say, marry, she noisy to quibble endless, say, make, there emerged a unmarried to born son and then, troublesome all one's life completely. Is it wholehearted to don't bother about the men, all most afraid this. As for the married woman, their misgivings is numerous. If has moved the true feelings hard to extricate oneself, the man is not afraid of either. They will produce some excuses immediately, such as " I am sick, do not want to tie down you " ,Or " my wife objects to committing suicide crazily "Or " the child makes people's liver and gall want to split "Thus, they who are romantic and realistic, depart automatically. If you are timid, expect he can withdraw from this game voluntarily, it is completely mistaken. Your yielding to will let him constrained " The color heart " ,Natural to progress " The lust " . And then run into a manager who harasses you a bit more unluckily, it may not be efficacious to fear or shrink back. Generally speaking, if That pieces of man is true in love to you,he would not feelings getting more hopeless too,basically can do thing that be retaliated. If script be risen for the moment pester, he can diligently for a long time. So hesitate to accept while pretending to refuse, can only leave one's own future the bomb detonating at any time. The most important thing is, you have this in the heart
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