How does the job market relieve the social pressure?

How does the job market relieve the social pressure?
Brief content: It is an important component of the good personality that the interpersonal relationships are harmonious. There is very important influence on that our job is developed, the question appearing in the human communication may have the following several respect:
1)It is of great impact to comment on by others. Afraid it is bad to comment on for others to have on oneself, dare, express one's own opinion for this reason, very sensitive others' every word and action it seems to be to one's own bad appraisal always, in order to get others' good appraisal, try hard to please others. The psychological reason of its deep layer is that a ego consciousness level is relatively low, can't carry on objective self-assessment, totally depend on others' appraisal as to one's own understanding. The method to change this kind of state is: Affirm more oneself, make great efforts, express the intersection of oneself and idea in group activity, because a lot of you anxious to be existed in fact.
2)Have dealings with all people with the same standard. Kindred, friendship, love, colleague, business partner,etc. are different, some human communications are based on emotion, such as the kindred, friendship and love, some interpersonal relationships are based on interests, such as colleague, business partner,etc., associate with colleague, classmate in standard that can't hold the kindred, otherwise you are very good to the household, perhaps the other side does not have something that reflect, you know the distance of psychological distance between you at this time, adjust in time. Live one room together sometimes, space distance very much close, the psychological distance is not very near too.
3)Everybody is taking the trace of communicating with parents more or less when handling the interpersonal relationships, if communicate with parents well, then will not present too great problem to communicate either with other people. Two kinds of situations will influence one's own interpersonal relationships, first, parents are always obeying oneself, first, parents never respect oneself, it is so possible in the human communication, either let others along oneself or ask, obey others always. Can reply oneself at this time: Have been influenced by parents? If realize, can change.
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